| Location | Peterborough |
| Age | 60 years |
| Cause of Death | Heart Attack |
| Date of Birth | 29/01/1945 |
| Date of Death | 10/12/2005 |
| Visitors | 9,561 since 28/08/2006 |
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MUM, YOU LEFT AND FORGOT TO TELL MY HEART HOW TO LIVE WITHOUT YOU.
♥ `*•.¸ IN LOVING MEMORY OF MY WONDERFUL MUM ♥ `*•.¸
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"No-one heard the footsteps of the angels drawing near,
Who took from earth to heaven the Mum I loved so dear.
She hasn't really left me, nor has she travelled far,
Just entered God's beautiful garden and left the door ajar."
~author unknown
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This memorial is dedicated to our loved one Sheila Yvonne Masters (nee Wiles) who was born on January 29th 1945 and passed away so unexpectedly on December 10th 2005. Beloved wife, mum, nanny, daughter, sister, aunt and friend. Loved and missed by all. We will remember her forever.
Mum lived all her life in Peterborough. At the age of 17 she met my Dad, Bill, and they married two years later. My brother, Paul, was born on February 15th 1966 and I was born on February 11th 1969. Mum's family meant the world to her and she always did everything she could for us.
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"A golden heart stopped beating,
Two willing hands are still.
The one who did so much for us
Is resting at God's will."
~author unknown
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When Paul and I were young Mum stayed at home, but eventually started work at Marshfields School where she helped to look after the children at lunch time. As was typical of Mum, if she could do anything else to help out then she always did. She loved her work and found it a pleasure looking after the children. She gave up work when my Dad retired in 1999.
Mum adored her granddaughter, my daughter Aimee. Sadly Mum passed away when I was six months pregnant with my son, Jack. Mum was so excited at the thought of having another grandchild, especially when we found out I was expecting a little boy. It breaks my heart to think that they will never know each other.
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"A wife, a mother, a nanny too,
This is the legacy we have from you.
You taught us love and how to fight,
You gave us strength, you gave us might.
A stonger person would be hard to find,
And in your heart you were always kind.
You fought for us all in one way or another,
Not just as a wife, not just as a mother.
For all of us you gave your best,
Now the time has come for you to rest.
So go in peace, you've earned your sleep,
Your love in our hearts we'll eternally keep."
~author unknown
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Mum also leaves behind her own mother, brothers Aubrey and Malcolm, and sisters Jean, Susan and Judith. Reunited in heaven with her Dad, brother Peter and sister Diane.
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"We little knew that morning that God would call your name.
In life we loved you dearly, in death we do the same.
It broke our hearts to lose you but you did not go alone,
For part of us went with you the day God called you home.
You left us precious memories; your love is still our guide,
And although we cannot see you, you are always at our side.
Our family chain is broken and nothing seems the same,
But as God calls us one by one the chain will link again."
~author unknown
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Mum was taken ill on the morning of December 9th 2005. She and Dad were supposed to be coming over to spend the day with me but just after 10.30am Dad phoned to say they wouldn’t be coming because Mum was in hospital - she’d had a heart attack. To say I was shocked is an understatement and I burst in to tears. Dad told me not to worry because Mum was OK but he was only saying this to keep me calm. I was six months pregnant and had a few problems with my blood pressure. I phoned my husband at work and we drove over to Peterborough District Hospital. Dad said that Mum had been taken ill just after breakfast. She complained of a pain in her jaw and chest which gradually got worse and worse and she also started being sick. Dad dialled 999 and an ambulance rushed Mum to hospital where, on her arrival at A&E, she had to be resuscitated. She had suffered a heart attack and was in a very serious condition. When we arrived the doctor explained that the blood clot which had caused the heart attack had created a hole in mum’s heart and this is what was making things more serious. Mum would need to be transferred to Papworth Hospital. At that point she was lucky to still be alive. The ambulance which was supposed to be collecting Mum had been delayed (bad weather had caused several accidents) and at one point I heard the doctor on the phone complaining about the delay, saying the longer the wait the more Mum’s heart was dying. This isn’t a phone call I wanted to overhear. Eventually the ambulance arrived and after making arrangements for our daughter to be looked after when she finished school we drove over to Papworth with Dad (he wasn’t allowed in the ambulance with Mum).
After being assessed by a doctor after Mum’s arrival at Papworth we were told that she would need to be moved to Critical Care. She needed surgery to repair the damage to her heart, but if this was done too soon the damaged tissue would still be too soft to be repaired, and leaving it too long could create more problems. He said the only way to judge when it was the right time for the surgery to be completed was to monitor her constantly. Mum would need an angioplasty to keep the damaged artery open until surgery. Mum hated hospitals and any medical procedures so this must have been so awful for her. Soon after this it was suspected that mum had suffered a mild stroke, although it was only ever mentioned in passing. No-one sat down with us and said any more than that. Dad was going to stay at the hospital but as Mum seemed reasonably settled we came home, but within a couple of hours we had to drive all the way back to Papworth. A nurse had phoned to say that Mum had gone down hill quite dramatically. The heart problem was stable but the stroke was causing problems.
I wasn’t prepared for how we found Mum when we got back to Papworth. She had been rolled over on to her right side and wasn’t moving. Dad said that after we left she soon lost all feeling down her left side. She then lost the ability to speak and then to see. Her face was paralysed with her eyes half open. My poor Mum. It is an image that will stay with me for the rest of my life. Sadly the heart attack and stroke were too much for her body to cope with. We sat there watching her die. No more could be done to save her.
At 1.45am on Saturday 10th December 2005 Mum left us. Me, Dad and my husband, John, were with her as she passed away. I hope she knew we were there, telling her how much we love her and would miss her. I lost part of myself that day and in its place is an overwhelming feeling of loss and grief. Nothing will ever take that feeling away.
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"I sat and watched you breathing,
The whole room filled with gloom.
I couldn't believe that grieving
Would follow far too soon.
I sat and watched you dying;
How could this be so real?
Inside my heart was breaking;
Pain was all that I could feel.
I sat and watched you fading;
Your life was ebbing away.
In an instant my world was changing;
How I wanted you to stay.
I sat and watched you die Mum;
It's your time for eternal rest;
But God has called you home too soon,
I guess he only takes the best.
Inside my heart is aching
And the pain still lingers on.
Your life was not for taking;
I can't accept that you have gone."
~ by your loving daughter, Karen
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Mum was such a warm, kind and caring person and would go out of her way to help anyone. She was the best mother anyone could hope to have. I'll never get over losing her and I miss her with all my heart. Wanting and needing someone who is no longer there is an unbearable feeling. I have never cried so many tears.
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"A beautiful nature, loyal and true.
One in a million dear Mum were you.
Never selfish, always kind.
These are the memories you left behind."
~ author unknown
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A prayer for you Mum:
Open your arms to welcome her;
Wrap them around her to keep her safe.
Find somewhere beautiful for her to rest;
A peaceful place so that she can sleep undisturbed.
Take away all her worries and pain;
Allow her stresses and strains to be left behind.
Let her know how much I love her and miss her;
Memories are all I have left.
Dear God, please take good care of her;
You took her from us far too soon.
~ by Karen
SLEEP PEACEFULLY WITH THE ANGELS, MUM. I JUST CAN'T BELIEVE YOU'VE GONE.
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**UPDATE
My Nan - Mum's mother - passed away 26/12/06. RIP.
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â•â•â•â•â•”â•â•â•—Gone But
â•â•â•â•â•‘â•â•â•‘Not Forgotten
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â•â•â•â•â•‘â•â•â•‘Page If You Know
â•â•â•â•â•‘â•â•â•‘Someone Who Is In
â•â•â•â•â•‘â•â•â•‘Heaven's Garden
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Death is at once
The end of the body’s
Old journey
And the beginning of the soul’s
New journey.
~ Sri Chinmoy
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To Myself
Even when I forget you
I go on looking for you
I believe I would know you
I keep remembering you
sometimes long ago but then
other times I am sure you
were here a moment before
and the air is still alive
around where you were and I
think then I can recognize
you who are always the same
who pretend to be time but
you are not time and who speak
in the words but you are not
what they say you who are not
lost when I do not find you
~ W.S Merwin
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*✫* Christmas Secrets *✫*
Underneath a winter sky
a distant train sings out the miles.
So I imagine, it may be,
that every mile brings you to me.
A promise made may still come true,
so I am waiting here for you,
if you don’t come, what will I do?
Who shall I tell my secrets to?
*☾*
Christmas bells ring out their chimes,
I hear them echo through the miles,
and moonlight shines upon the road
and trembles on the fallen snow
I look into the midnight blue
So many stars I never knew.
If you don’t come, what will I do?
Who shall I tell my secrets to?
*☾*
I look into the midnight blue
So many stars I never knew.
If you don’t come, what will I do?
Who shall I tell my secrets to?
~ Sung by Enya, lyrics by Roma Ryan ~
Copyright â’¸2006 EMI
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★ Gone to the Unseen ★
At last you have departed and gone to the Unseen.
What marvelous route did you take from this world?
Beating your wings and feathers,
you broke free from this cage.
Rising up to the sky
you attained the world of the soul.
You were a prized falcon trapped by an Old Woman.
Then you heard the drummer's call
and flew beyond space and time.
☆....☆....☆
As a lovesick nightingale, you flew among the owls.
Then came the scent of the rosegarden
and you flew off to meet the Rose.
The wine of this fleeting world
caused your head to ache.
Finally you joined the tavern of Eternity.
Like an arrow, you sped from the bow
and went straight for the bull's eye of bliss.
☆....☆....☆
This phantom world gave you false signs
But you turned from the illusion
and journeyed to the land of truth.
You are now the Sun -
what need have you for a crown?
You have vanished from this world -
what need have you to tie your robe?
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I've heard that you can barely see your soul.
But why look at all? -
yours is now the Soul of Souls!
O heart, what a wonderful bird you are.
Seeking divine heights,
Flapping your wings,
you smashed the pointed spears of your enemy.
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The flowers flee from Autumn, but not you -
You are the fearless rose
that grows amidst the freezing wind.
Pouring down like the rain of heaven
you fell upon the rooftop of this world.
Then you ran in every direction
and escaped through the drain spout…
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Now the words are over
and the pain they bring is gone.
Now you have gone to rest
in the arms of the Beloved.
~ Rumi
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♥ REMEMBERING YOU ON YOUR ANGEL DAY ♥
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♥ I Miss You ♥
Another year without you
Tears flow – within this broken heart of mine
I am never complete
A shadow of my former self
You went to the Garden of Paradise this day, that year
I should be happy for you, but I wish you were here so much
And all I can do is cry.
♥ Written by Melanie Doe 10/09/10 ♥
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The morning glory blooms but for an hour,
and yet it differs not at heart
From the giant pine
that lives for a thousand years.
~ Matsunaga Teitoku ♥
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Underneath the growing grass,
Underneath the living flowers,
Deeper than the sound of showers:
There we shall not count the hours
By the shadows as they pass.
Youth and health will be but vain,
Beauty reckoned of no worth:
There a very little girth
Can hold round what once the earth
Seemed too narrow to contain.
~ Christina Rossetti
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♥ THE GOLDEN GATE ♥
DIM shadows gather thickly round,
and up the misty stair they climb,
The cloudy stair that upward leads
to where the closed portals shine,
Round which the kneeling spirits
wait the opening of the Golden Gate.
♥☆♥
And some with eager longing go,
still pressing forward, hand in hand,
And some with weary step and slow,
look back where their Beloved stand —
Yet up the misty stair they climb,
led onward by the Angel Time.
♥☆♥
As unseen hands roll back the doors,
the light that floods the very air
Is but the shadow from within,
of the great glory hidden there —
And morn and eve, and soon and late,
the shadows pass within the gate.
♥☆♥
As one by one they enter in,
and the stern portals close once more,
The halo seems to linger round
those kneeling closest to the door:
The joy that lightened from that place
shines still upon the watcher's face.
♥☆♥
The faint low echo that we hear of
far-off music seems to fill
The silent air with love and fear,
and the world's clamours all grow still,
Until the portals close again,
and leave us toiling on in pain.
♥☆♥
Complain not that the way is long —
what road is weary that leads there?
But let the Angel take thy hand,
and lead thee up the misty stair,
And then with beating heart await,
the opening of the Golden Gate.
☆ Adelaide Anne Procter ☆
-۰̮̑â—̮̑۰----۰̮̑â—̮̑۰----۰̮̑â—̮̑۰----۰̮̑â—̮̑۰----۰̮̑â—̮̑۰----۰̮̑â—̮̑۰----۰̮̑â—̮̑۰----۰̮̑â—̮̑۰-
An old monk was once asked why he cared for ancient graves,
and why he cleaned the stones to preserve the writing carved there.
His reply was simple: “They still have their names. They will
always have their names.”
A life infused with love has consequences that reach beyond time
— ensuring that names, and places, and memories of what was,
still are, and always will be. They are not dead, can never die.
~ Gregory & Suzanne Wolfe
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~ Bilbo's Song in Rivendel ~
(The Fellowship of the Ring by J.R.R. Tolkien)
I sit beside the fire and think
of all that I have seen
of meadow-flowers and butterflies
in summers that have been;
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Of yellow leaves and gossamer
in autumns that there were,
with morning mist and silver sun
and wind upon my hair.
…✿ ✿ ✿…
I sit beside the fire and think
of how the world will be
when winter comes without a spring
that I shall ever see.
…✿ ✿ ✿…
For still there are so many things
that I have never seen:
in every wood in every spring
there is a different green.
…✿ ✿ ✿…
I sit beside the fire and think
of people long ago,
and people who will see a world
that I shall never know.
…✿ ✿ ✿…
But all the while I sit and think
of times there were before,
I listen for returning feet
and voices at the door.
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☜♡☞ Dancing With Angels ☜♡☞
It’s just so hard to believe
All I have to hold is your memory
From this side of the clouds all I see is grief
But on the other side I know you’re free
And you’re dancing, dancing with angels.
Somewhere just out of my reach
You’re keeping heavenly company
When I’m feeling lonely it’s for myself I cry
‘Cause there aren’t any tears in paradise
When you’re dancing, dancing with angels.
I can almost hear your laughter
See the fullness of your joy
Knowing that you’re present with the Lord
And though today I miss you I know the day will come
When every believer will behold the Son
And we’ll be dancing, dancing with angels.
â’¸ 1997 Dayspring Music / Lehsem Music
Words and Music by J. Mandeville & S. Siler
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